Marriage

So the man and me have our ups and downs and well aside from my own messed up head he is the only negative point in my life....It's not that i don't love him because i do SO SO much. Its just our communication.

He places so much worth on housework and its all that matters to him and it gets me so angry and frustrated that if i have a bad day he huffs and puffs and goes to his mates because i didn't empty a stupid damn dishwasher!!!! i mean seriously he should be happy he is coming home to a healthy family with a wife and not one but TWO gorgeous little boys who have nothing but smiles and giggles for their daddy (they save the tears and tantrums for mummy) but instead he wants to come home and do housework and weights rather than spend ten minutes playing with his son who has been very politely asking for him all day. then he gets mad at him cuz theo chucks a tantrum to get some form of attention from his father!

but we've been going to marriage counselling and whilst we were going fortnightly everything was going peachy on the surface so i suggest we leave it for 6 weeks between appointments and see what happens and low and behold after 4 weeks the same old terry comes out making smart arse comments about the things i didn't do without and thanks or recognition for all that i did do.

i just dont know if he's worth it anymore